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==Art of Surrender==
==Art of Surrender==
[[Surrender]]ing to what is, allows the natural flow to be expressed to resolve life’s problems. It is not our [[Negative Ego|egos]] job to solve the world’s problems. Problems can resolve when we give up fighting against the natural flow of life. Surrender means to stop fighting with yourself. Stop fighting the Universe and the natural flow of things by pushing against reality. [[Surrender]] is not about inaction. It is learning when to take action from that place of [[Surrender]], while in the natural flow of life.
[[Surrender]]ing to what is, allows the natural flow to be expressed to resolve life’s problems. It is not our [[Negative Ego|egos]] job to solve the world’s problems. Problems can better resolve when we give up fighting against the natural flow of life. Surrender means to stop fighting with yourself. Stop fighting the Universe and the natural flow of things by pushing against reality. [[Surrender]] is not about inaction. It is learning when to take action from that place of [[Surrender]], while in the natural flow of life.


* What are you afraid will happen if you give up control and surrender? Pinpoint the fear driving the control reaction and see if that fear is really valid. Then face that fear, find ways to express it and let it go, move on and join the flow of life.  
* What are you afraid will happen if you give up control and surrender? Pinpoint the fear driving the control reaction and see if that fear is really valid. Then face that fear, find ways to express it and let it go, move on and join the flow of life.  
* If you are controlling something or someone outside yourself, this action will not go well.
* If you are controlling something or someone outside yourself, this action will not go well.
* Surrendering will produce better results in the outcome and you will feel much less tension, anxiety and exhaustion.
* Surrendering will produce better results in the outcome and you will feel much less tension, anxiety and exhaustion.
* Accept yourself, others, and the world the way they are right now. [[Surrender]] has no loser or winner, it is about accepting what is.
* Accept yourself, others, and the world the way they are right now. [[Surrender]] has no loser or winner, it is about accepting what is and doing your best to be the greatest person you can be.  
* The quality of focus is maintained in the present moment and not on the outcome of a future event.
* The quality of focus is maintained in the present moment and not on the outcome of a future event.
* When presently clear, the most natural flow of consciousness will access the circumstance. When you are not pushing for answers, wait, listen and notice discernment about when to take action. [[Meditation|Meditate]].
* When presently clear, the most natural flow of consciousness will access the circumstance. When you are not pushing for answers, wait, listen and notice discernment about when to take action. [[Meditation|Meditate]].