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	[[Self-Responsibility]] – Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame~~, guilt~~ or projection upon another person, by making it their fault. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know, as you have not walked in their ~~“shoes”~~. When feeling upset, restore balance to your heart and aura, by lovingly holding ~~your~~ boundaries without violating others boundaries by expecting them to resolve your conflict. Be willing and open to learn what the ~~“real issue”~~ is~~, which~~ most of the time not what it appears to be. ~~Going~~ deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of ~~yourself~~ and others, allowing time, ~~neutralizes~~ the conflict. Learning how to become responsible and accepting [[Self-Responsibility]] is a major step of productive [[Negative Ego]] clearing.		[[Self-Responsibility]] – Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame or projection upon another person by making it their fault. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know about them, as you have not walked in their shoes. When feeling upset towards somebody else, restore balance to your heart and aura by lovingly holding boundaries without violating others boundaries, by expecting them to resolve your conflict. Be willing and open to learn what the real issue is that has created the conflict. As most of the time, we're upset about something deep down from our own inner fears and it's not what it appears to be. By going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of ourselves and forgiveness of others, while allowing the time and space needed to heal, helps to neutralize the conflict in most cases.Learning how to become responsible and accepting [[Self-Responsibility]] is a major step of productive [[Negative Ego]] clearing.

	==Relationship Mastery Guideline==		==Relationship Mastery Guideline==

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	==Responsibility and Accountability==		==Responsibility and Accountability==
	Many people confuse responsibility and [[Accountability]] as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]]</ref>		Many people confuse responsibility and [[Accountability]] as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]</ref>

	==Compassionate Communication==		==Compassionate Communication==

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	Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. Commit to a clearing negative ego practice through refocusing exercise.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/1526-clearing-negative-ego Negative Ego Clearing]</ref> This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>		Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. Commit to a clearing negative ego practice through refocusing exercise.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/1526-clearing-negative-ego Negative Ego Clearing]</ref> This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>

	==Self Esteem Makes Better Choices==Self~~- esteem~~ can also align to help a person make better choices, especially when it comes to personal character development, improved learning and coping skills with life which attracts and manifests abundance. Self ~~esteem~~ improves mental and emotional clarity which starts with awareness of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem Building Self Esteem]</ref>		==Self Esteem Makes Better Choices==

			[[Self Esteem]] can also align to help a person make better choices, especially when it comes to personal character development, improved learning and coping skills with life which attracts and manifests abundance. [[Self Esteem]] improves mental and emotional clarity which starts with awareness of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem Building Self Esteem]</ref>

	==References==		==References==

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	==Be Aware==		==Be Aware==
	Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. Commit to a clearing negative ego practice through refocusing exercise.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/1526-clearing-negative-ego Negative Ego Clearing]</ref> This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>		Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. Commit to a clearing negative ego practice through refocusing exercise.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/1526-clearing-negative-ego Negative Ego Clearing]</ref> This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>

			==Self Esteem Makes Better Choices==Self- esteem can also align to help a person make better choices, especially when it comes to personal character development, improved learning and coping skills with life which attracts and manifests abundance. Self esteem improves mental and emotional clarity which starts with awareness of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem Building Self Esteem]</ref>

	==References==		==References==

Lisa: /* Be Aware */

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	==Be Aware==		==Be Aware==
	Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. ~~(This is~~ clearing negative ego ~~techniques here)~~ This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>		Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. Commit to a clearing negative ego practice through refocusing exercise.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/1526-clearing-negative-ego Negative Ego Clearing]</ref> This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>

	==References==		==References==

Lisa at 04:33, 22 August 2014

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	Krystic qualities have also been described in the [[GSF Behavior]]s from the ES Guardian Perspective, as the antidote to AD ego behavior resulting from [[Mind Control]] programming and lack of knowledge and [[Self Awareness]]. <ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/library/multi-dimensional/multi-d-blueprint/2265-krystic-qualities Krystic Qualities]</ref>		Krystic qualities have also been described in the [[GSF Behavior]]s from the ES Guardian Perspective, as the antidote to AD ego behavior resulting from [[Mind Control]] programming and lack of knowledge and [[Self Awareness]]. <ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/library/multi-dimensional/multi-d-blueprint/2265-krystic-qualities Krystic Qualities]</ref>

			==Be Aware==
			Be aware of what your inner voice is saying. Listen to your inner dialogue and thoughts. If a particular thought is not kind or is not serving you, take note of this and redirect your focus to something positive. (This is clearing negative ego techniques here) This can be difficult in the early stages and time-consuming until you develop strength with mental focus. Remember to be kind to yourself as you are gaining awareness and strengthening your mental will. This is an act of [[Self-Responsibility]].<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/building-self-esteem/2348-self-respect Self Respect]</ref>

	==References==		==References==


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Lisa at 04:25, 22 August 2014

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	[[Self-Responsibility]] – Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame, guilt or projection upon another person, by making it their fault. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know, as you have not walked in their “shoes”. When feeling upset, restore balance to your heart and aura, by lovingly holding your boundaries without violating others boundaries by expecting them to resolve your conflict. Be willing and open to learn what the “real issue” is, which most of the time not what it appears to be. Going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of yourself and others, allowing time, neutralizes the conflict.		[[Self-Responsibility]] – Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame, guilt or projection upon another person, by making it their fault. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know, as you have not walked in their “shoes”. When feeling upset, restore balance to your heart and aura, by lovingly holding your boundaries without violating others boundaries by expecting them to resolve your conflict. Be willing and open to learn what the “real issue” is, which most of the time not what it appears to be. Going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of yourself and others, allowing time, neutralizes the conflict. Learning how to become responsible and accepting [[Self-Responsibility]] is a major step of productive [[Negative Ego]] clearing.

	==Relationship Mastery Guideline==		==Relationship Mastery Guideline==

Lisa: /* Responsibility and Accountability */

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	==Responsibility and Accountability==		==Responsibility and Accountability==
	Many people confuse responsibility and ~~accountability~~ as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]]</ref>		Many people confuse responsibility and [[Accountability]] as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]]</ref>


	==Compassionate Communication==		==Compassionate Communication==

Lisa: /* Responsibility and Accountability */

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	==Responsibility and Accountability==		==Responsibility and Accountability==
	Many people confuse responsibility and accountability as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]]		Many people confuse responsibility and accountability as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]]</ref>

Lisa at 04:18, 22 August 2014

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	Improving our [[Compassion]]ate communication with others, improving our relating skills, personally and in group dynamics, is a skill set that will go a long way to serve your mission. With that in mind we set forth a few guidelines to remember when communicating with others or relating with others. The first step is [[Self-Responsibility]] in all of your thoughts, actions and behaviors with yourself and others.		Improving our [[Compassion]]ate communication with others, improving our relating skills, personally and in group dynamics, is a skill set that will go a long way to serve your mission. With that in mind we set forth a few guidelines to remember when communicating with others or relating with others. The first step is [[Self-Responsibility]] in all of your thoughts, actions and behaviors with yourself and others.

			==Responsibility and Accountability==
			Many people confuse responsibility and accountability as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do with giving up certain [[Ego Defense Mechanism]] behaviors, such as negative beliefs and attitudes, than just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others or to have a tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or gets upset, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the vicinity. This is a common ego defense to avoid facing the truth of the matter or the task at hand and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability to their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or [[Three Layers of Ego\|conscious personality]]. This is done by simply tuning someone out, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility or accountability.<ref>[http://www.energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/ascension-tools/assessing-trustworthiness/2435-accountability-2 Accountability]]


	==Compassionate Communication==		==Compassionate Communication==